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You’re Not Your Output

  • patmcneill99
  • Jun 16
  • 2 min read

We have been programmed to predicate our worth on what we do.


Our job.

Our title.

Our degree.

Our accolades.

Our productivity.



We live in a society that praises what you accomplish…

…but rarely asks who you are without all of it.


And that’s the wound.


You’ve been taught to tether your worth to titles, salaries, and social validation —

To believe that “success” means sacrifice of authenticity.

To perform in rooms that never asked for your soul, only your output.



But I’m not here for your resumé.

I’m not impressed by your productivity.

I don’t care how many people know your name, If you don’t remember the incredible worth it carries.


What I care about is this:


Do you tell the truth when it costs you something?

Do you choose peace over performative power?

Can you sit in silence without reaching for a screen?

Do you still remember what your voice sounds like when it’s not filtered through fear?


I care about the softness in your eyes when someone is in pain.

I care about the way you hold space — not for applause, but because it’s right.

I care about your stillness. Your presence. 



Strip away the job.

The followers.

The degrees.

The grind.

The mask.


Now ask yourself: What remains?


That answer — the one that burns quietly beneath the layers — that’s who you are.

And if you don’t know yet… good. That’s the beginning. That’s the real work.


Because I promise you:


Your value was never rooted in how well you “played the game.”

It’s in how bravely you choose to exit it.


The world doesn’t need another high-performer on the edge of a breakdown.


It needs you — the real you. Not the one who conforms, complies, or contorts.



I’m not here to applaud what you do. Because if you don’t know who you are — truly — then what you do will eventually become your prison.

You’ll chase success to outrun emptiness.

You’ll confuse achievement with alignment and you’ll call it ambition… when it’s really just avoidance.

So no, I don’t care what you do —Not until your actions are rooted in your truth.


I care about the moment you stop performing and start remembering.

I care about the second your soul speaks louder than the world’s demands.

I care about the you beneath the résumé, the titles, and the timeline. Because without that?Everything you build will eventually break.

You were never meant to earn your worth.

You were meant to embody it.


Now rise — not in role or resumé —

But in your truth and divine worth.


Because the real you?


That’s who changes the world.


Be who you are and be that well.

 
 
 

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